12 Steps - Eating Disorder Anonymous

Eating Disorder Anonymous (EDA) is a fellowship of individuals who have experienced eating disorders and are seeking recovery through a 12-step program. The 12 steps, adapted from Alcoholics Anonymous, provide a framework for individuals to overcome their eating disorders by addressing underlying emotional, spiritual, and psychological issues. In this blog post, we will explore the 12 steps and how they can be applied to eating disorder recovery.

Step 1: We admitted we were powerless over food – that our lives had become unmanageable.

The first step of the 12-step program involves acknowledging that we are powerless over our eating disorder and that our lives have become unmanageable. This can be a difficult step to take, as it requires us to confront the reality of our situation and admit that we need help.

Step 2: Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

In step 2, we begin to explore the idea of a higher power that can help us overcome our eating disorder. This higher power can take many forms, such as a spiritual force or a supportive community. The important thing is to recognize that we cannot overcome our eating disorder on our own and that we need help from something greater than ourselves.

Step 3: Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.

In step 3, we make a conscious decision to turn our will and our lives over to a higher power. This involves surrendering our control over our eating disorder and trusting in something greater than ourselves to guide us on our path to recovery.

Step 4: Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

In step 4, we take a deep and honest look at ourselves and our behaviors, including those related to our eating disorder. This involves taking responsibility for our actions and acknowledging the harm that we have caused ourselves and others.

Step 5: Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

Step 5 involves admitting the nature of our wrongs to ourselves, a higher power, and another human being. This step can be challenging, as it requires vulnerability and honesty, but it is essential for making progress in our recovery.

Step 6: Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.

In step 6, we become willing to let go of the negative behaviors and thought patterns that are associated with our eating disorder. This involves being open to change and accepting help from a higher power and others.

Step 7: Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

In step 7, we ask a higher power to help us overcome our shortcomings and negative behaviors. This step involves humility and a willingness to rely on something greater than ourselves for guidance and support.

Step 8: Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.

In step 8, we make a list of all the people we have harmed as a result of our eating disorder and become willing to make amends to them. This step involves taking responsibility for our actions and making an effort to repair the damage that we have caused.

Step 9: Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

In step 9, we make direct amends to the people we have harmed, wherever possible. This step involves taking action to repair the damage we have caused and making a sincere effort to make things right.

Step 10: Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.

In step 10, we continue to take inventory of ourselves and our behaviors, and promptly admit when we are wrong. This step involves ongoing self-reflection and a commitment to honesty and accountability.

Step 11: Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.

In step 11, we seek to improve our connection with a higher power through prayer and meditation. This step involves focusing on our spiritual growth and asking for guidance from a higher power to help us stay on the path of recovery.

Step 12: Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to other compulsive eaters, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

In the final step, we recognize that our recovery has led to a spiritual awakening and a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us. This step involves sharing our experiences with others who may be struggling with eating disorders and practicing the principles of the 12 steps in all areas of our lives.

In conclusion, the 12 steps provide a roadmap for individuals seeking to overcome their eating disorder and achieve lasting recovery. By acknowledging the need for help from a higher power, taking responsibility for our actions, making amends to those we have harmed, and staying committed to ongoing self-reflection and spiritual growth, we can find the strength and support we need to overcome our eating disorder and live a healthier, more fulfilling life. As an eating disorder specialist, I highly recommend considering the 12-step program as a valuable tool for those on the path to recovery.

For more information visit: https://eatingdisordersanonymous.org/

By: Melodie Simmons, MS, LPC, CEDS-S, ACHE

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